tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73867353542929555392024-02-07T01:21:12.819-08:00Weblogs of Manikandan JMani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-75031704901080647322020-12-22T23:19:00.002-08:002020-12-22T23:28:49.454-08:00Work on your past!<p style="text-align: justify;">Life is not even and there are Ups and Downs for all of us. When you look back at life and the path you travelled, do you see struggles and pain? Though we cannot undo the path we walked into the present, we could have done better to reach the same ‘today’ and yet feel ‘achievements’ instead of struggles. </p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: #2b00fe;">So, here is the question! How to feel happy about the past? How to feel that you had a great past?</span></b> </p><p style="text-align: justify;">The answer is very simple. Today is the past for tomorrow. Making today as rich as you can, creates a better past. No matter how you have been so far, what lies in your hands now is to give 100% to your ‘Today’.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: #ffd966;">Look at earnings and not income!</span></b> To a common man with common thought, income and earnings might sound the same. But, if you carefully think about it, what you save from the income is your earning. Earn also means ‘to gain’ and gain is after you meet your living costs from your income. Life is the same. All that happens today is like your income; what must stay with you for future is like earnings. Choose what you want to spend and forget about today and what you want to carry with you to the future!</p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: #ffd966;">Turn setbacks into positive experiences!</span></b> Struggles that you face today can’t stay with you as pain forever. When you make your struggles into experiences, what stays with you is how it changed you for good. Convert every failure into a lesson and a good habit to stay. There was a time, when I had a very big problem and an astrologer asked me to pray Sun God at the time of sunrise for 48 days. Instead of just praying, I made it a habit to memorize few religious hymns/slokas. I also started walk in the morning and made it a habit. Today, when I think of that problem, I don’t have the pain of the past paint the picture in front of me, rather what made me a better person!</p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: #ffd966;">Know yourself!</span></b> This helps to avoid a bitter present. It is all about today, when you want to create a rich past. Introspect the person in you. See what makes you tensed, angry, react and makes the day stressful to make mistakes. Take for example, a day when you start to work 15 minutes early. You tend to observe lot of people in a hurry while you are not. You stop at the signals properly, give way for people who rush and enter with a smile to work. Compare this to a day when you start 10 minutes late than usual for work. You will experience being in the opposite side of the crowd who are in a hurry, shout at people on the road, try to jump at signals. This can be applied to any event in a day, like a meditation in the morning to start your day, a good exercise, not staying up hungry for long, sleeping early et al. Listen to the person in you and see what keeps your day at peace! </p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: #ffe599;">Reactive tendencies and Creative competencies!</span></b> When I read this somewhere, I was extrapolating it to how we all have these dimensions inside us. Many a times, I have seen creativity and leadership accompanies people who are early risers. Their first winning for the day is beating the sun by waking up before the sun wakes up. It creates fresh ideas and clarity of thought. I have seen implementers or reactors/adapters to be late sleepers. They find their nights calm and peaceful to implement what they want to. We all are formed by the creative, enterprising and implementation as ingredients but, not in the same proportion. So, the rule can’t be ‘one size fits all’ and it is not just about waking early or sleeping late. Look where you stand and what is the ask of you, seek inside and carve yourself through practices that meets the asks! I am sure this will make a brand out of you!</p><p style="text-align: justify;">I don’t want to make this article complete. Rather, even if I try to, I will fail. Life is different for each one of us. Each life is unique. Each of us will have to apply our own techniques to be successful. While the tips I quoted above largely applies for anyone, post your tip to me. Waiting eagerly for it … ! </p>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-7947731762112390902015-07-27T08:32:00.002-07:002015-07-27T08:32:41.030-07:00The 'NEW' in ME - An Associative Thinking<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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What am I touching upon in this article? A way to upbring children, the concepts of innovation, the insights of a video that explains how "Om" helps us balance these enrgies [so a little insight spiritually as well]. More importantly I wanted to share an awesome introspection that I went through to realize that innovation is within us always. I also wanted to share. Basically linking all of these :-)</div>
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This is a little lengthy but I hope it is a good read. I was reading two different things this month; One on spirituality and One on Innovations. This blog is just a product of my associative thinking of two different nice things that I read last week. This is definitely not written with an intent to advocate/side the Hindu beliefs. But, I am sure every religion has some or the other on these lines to achieve the same goal. </div>
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Om is considered to be a very mysitc word that has manifold explanations/interpretations. This is one of those. The 3 syllables of Om "Aa", "Uu", "Mm" signigfies Brahm"Aa", Vishn"uu", Siva"mm". It was nice for me to see how the syllables form the ending sound of the names of these Gods first of all. More interestingly, when you utter these syllables separately, you can see the vibrations in stomach when saying "Aa", at chest when uttering "Uu" and at head when you utter "Mm". </div>
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The "Aa" that denotes Brahmaa, and that which creates the vibration in stomach indicates our creational force. Isn't that true our energy is created in stomach, may it be the food that creates energy or the birth/life-force that gets created in the stomach. Similarly, the "Uu" that denotes Vishnu, and that which creates vibration in the chest indicates the protective force. True if you think og our heart/control-unit that is held protected by the rib cage in chest? Similarly, the "Mm" that denotes Shivam, which creates vibration at the head indicates the transformational force [not to call it a destructive force. One form of energy gets destructed to create another. So this is a transformational force]. Isn't that true where all thought process of our knowledge/wisdom gets born here [in our brain].</div>
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So what this means? When do we succeed or be completly unmatchable. When we are creative, sustain [protect] our creativity and get efficient at it by transforming the creativity manifolds so it reaches all and becomes prevalent to yield us popularity and success. Om [or Aum] is a balance of all of these in us and is within us for people who realize it?</div>
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<span style="color: #674ea7;"><strong>Growth Innovations</strong></span> takes an offering that was complex, expensive and used by only a very few and turns that into an offering that is affordable, simple, convenient and can be used by many.</div>
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<span style="color: #674ea7;"><strong>Sustaining innovations</strong></span> occur in companies that exist, and their purpose is to develop better products that they can sell for better profits to their best customers. Helps sustain success amidst competitors.</div>
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<span style="color: #674ea7;"><strong>Efficiency innovations</strong></span> typically entail creating a new business model, not new products or services, per se. But these business model innovations allow companies to deliver good products or services much more efficiently.</div>
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<strong><span style="color: #f1c232;">My Associational Thinking</span></strong> makes me feel these are one and the same. Call it spirituality of innovation "or" Innovation in Spirituality, it gives me the same thinking. The growth innovation that initiates an innovation [or a business model] is the Brahmaa, the Sustaining innovation that protects or maintains the business model's success is the Vishnuu and the Effiency Innovation that transforms/adapts the business model to the newest of new generaions and changing trends is the Shivamm.</div>
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It is said everyone as a child, has some core strenghts by birth. Have you seen some kids being very creative in what they do? They have a high creativity ["Aa"] in them. Have you seen some kids are less disruptive? You give them something to play and tell them how to play, they just do that. They dont disturb the setup and are not naughty, which means they have a high protective energy ["Uu"] in them. And some kids are always disruptive, you give them something they are beyond creative and interpret the given thing manifold with their curiosity and transform them into many things. That's the sign of transformational energy ["Mm"]. </div>
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This is exactly what we need to observe in them. This helps in upbringing, when you know what your child is good at. In this competitive world, we need the right balance of being creative, sustain success and then transform it into efficiency towards changing trends. Spiritualist say chanting "Om" help the energy flow from the stomach to the brain and creates a balanced energy in your nature through continuous chanting of the same. I am sure, every relegion has something to achieve the same.</div>
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I want to keep this article a little abstract, without a conclusion. This message is meant for interpretation by anyone who reads it and I want that observation and inference to come in you without biasing it with my conclusions.</div>
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Happy Innovation and Introspection!</div>
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Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-73860542398156931582015-06-21T00:36:00.000-07:002015-06-21T00:36:01.568-07:00My Father!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "Lucida Calligraphy"; font-size: 9.0pt;"> <span style="color: #6aa84f;">Who else is around, I didn’t bother!</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Lucida Calligraphy"; font-size: 9.0pt;"><span style="color: #6aa84f;">He neither bids adieu nor feels to retire;</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-41180113847365452462013-12-10T23:24:00.003-08:002013-12-11T00:48:35.115-08:00Stronger Than Yesterday!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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How many times in life, our happiness or satisfaction has come to a halt by looking at peers? Sometimes, we are personally very happy on what we achieved but when sharing it, we show the pride only to people who have achieved less than us? I feel that our satisfaction quotient in life has come down and our happiness quotient has become relative to our surroundings. What should our comparison be on is the key to life and this blog!<br />
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Just imagine that you bought a second hand car. How is your tone of communication, when communicating it to a village man Vs a person who owns 2 cars? Say you score 60% on a paper in which you usually fail. You will express your happiness to other failure candidates with a couple advises to them on what they can do, to be you! But you might either not communicate to the class topper or pass it on to him as a news if you have to. Dont you think that we play low with people above us even though our own sense of pride is high on what we achieved?<br />
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In the facebook page of A.R.Rahman, I saw a post where an authority judges elephant, lion and monkey on their capabilities with a single test of climbing a tree. Though funny, it nailed a beautiful message. Is there a single measure that can grade all of us? There is no "One Size Fits All" in this world. </div>
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Why do we compare? Every living organism subconsciously adapts to the surroundings and thus it becomes law of nature? Our parents [or we as parents] usually compare children with neighbors and ask them to be [or not to be] like them? So it all starts there and we continue it for our life and we pass it on as a legacy to the next generation. Instead of complaining the law of nature, we as humans with the unique sixth sense can overcome it!<br />
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Believe in "Stronger than Yesterday"! In effect compare yourself with what you were yesterday. Do this to be safe and successful for the following reasons: </div>
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<li>Beware! A wrong upper limit of "Becoming Einstein" can make you run for your entire life without achieving it. </li>
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All life's EQUAL and each life is UNIQUE. Each of us have a job to do and we do it in our one way. It could be taking you UP the ladder faster/slower based on how you approach your tasks. <span style="color: #a64d79;"><i>Please note that I just mean NO to comparisons and not learning by seeing others.</i></span> Life is not too long to punish ourselves for what we are. We will have to bring the best out of what we are, and in that journey make ourself and people around us happy. If you believe that you have that extra mileage to achieve, even if the people you used to compare with have failed, you will be able to do it. <br />
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<i><span style="color: #ffe599;">A bird sitting on a branch doesn't sit there trusting the strength of the branch, but the strength of its wings!</span></i> So, Believe in you! Believe that you are a unique formula. Introspect to see what you can do, to be better that the past! Set small milestones, achieve them every now and then, and always strive to be stronger than yesterday! You will incrementally reach great heights one day ... Observe others, get inspired and try it your way ONLY if you feel you can! This is the legacy that according to me, we should pass on to the next generation!</div>
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Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-78356781864426524352013-09-22T06:13:00.001-07:002013-09-22T06:13:52.562-07:00Hunger – A Sign of Strength or Weakness?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Often, the word Hunger is linked
to lack of something that makes one weak. But are we looking at it as an
instigator to fill what we lack? What we achieve or would like to achieve is
the result of hunger/craving/passion that we have towards it. Hunger is not a
‘lack’ of something, but if we don’t have it, we lack success. This is the crux
of my thought process today.</div>
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Like an expert swimmer who
doesn’t fear the deeps and like the phoenix, which doesn’t fear the fire, a
person with a hunger for something doesn’t fear obstacles towards his destiny. Let
us literally take the attitude that we demonstrate when we are hungry. Don’t we
eat crazy like a glutton the moment we see food after prolonged fasting? Does
that demonstrate the force that we have/exhibit when seeing our passionate
food?</div>
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A spiritual digression to this
topic can also be cited here. The reason why we follow fasting before we offer
our prayers ... There is an unconscious activity or energy flow that happens in
our body, when we are hungry. It is believed that when you starve for a very
long duration and sit near a small tender plant for few hours, the plant droops
down losing its vitality. It is because our body tends to absorb the vital
energy around it, when it lacks/craves for energy. Scientifically I would say
that energy flows from higher to lower concentration. Thus came the belief of
praying in empty stomach that makes our body absorb the spiritual/positive
vibes effectively. When every cell of our body exhibits this involuntary
behavior, don’t we have a reason to believe that hunger is a sign of strength
in us?</div>
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I have heard of a story where a
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wants.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Vivekananda takes this man into
the nearby water body and immerses him inside water. When the man somehow
manages to come out and takes a deep breath for his survival, Swami says that
one should be that desperate like how desperate he was to get that one breathe
of life while he was under water. That’s the hunger that can also be called as
desperation to achieve.</div>
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Hunger gives us the drive to run
for what we want. It sets us on fire and helps achieve greatness. Its only when
we don’t act upon this intensity, it starts to develop weakness in us.</div>
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Stay Hungry and Stay Tuned towards
your goals!</div>
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</span></span></span>Mani</div>
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Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-53046063153722504942013-08-21T05:27:00.000-07:002013-08-21T05:27:02.324-07:00Sustaining Vs Stagnating<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I was supposed to pen this blog a couple months before, when
I completed 10 years in IT. It took some time for my brain to connect my
fingers to the keyboard. So here it goes...</div>
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The months of May and June, usually puts me into many
questions towards my career, every year. Every May, I complete 1 extra year in
my company and Every June I complete 1 extra year of experience in IT. This
year I was checking myself against "Stagnating Vs Sustaining".</div>
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There is life, when you say that you are sustaining on your
goodness and success. It means that you get past your previous milestones and
constantly maintain a pace in the race, to meet new laurels. Sometimes your
successes and your comfort zone make "Stagnation" look like a
Sustaining Activity. Appreciations from known colleagues, people praising you
wherever you go, setting goals to your comfort and laziness can cause this
delusion.</div>
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As life changes and you get into more commitments, it is
difficult to have the same vigor in you that you had when you were a bachelor.
Everything in this world is bound to wear-and-tear and thus we slow our pace
too. But, it is always good to check if you are stagnating at a level. Sustain
and Stagnate means staying in a level. But as you can see one is lively and
flowing and the other is stale.</div>
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Making smart moves to sustain your success is very important
as we get into a lot of personal commitments. Work hard Vs Work Smart is again
a key. One can work hard and get the same results as working smart. But as you
progress in your career and get into a higher role with lots of professional
and personal commitments, we will have to choose the smart way to enjoy
success. We can't run fast and work hard, when our hands and legs are fettered
with too many commitments. Are we just concerned or cautious about the steps
that we take during this transition? Again, both "Concerned" and
"Cautious" shows your worry towards a happening. But, as you can very
well see, one is of superlative in nature. I feel being 'cautious' begets
actions from your end towards careful planning of your career.</div>
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Being 'Cautious' about what you do, to 'sustain' your
success is the simple message that I wanted to convey. Again you can either
think about this or meditate on it. You know what I am going to say here ...
:-) Both 'meditate' and 'think' create a thought process. But when you
meditate, you give life to the thought process and make it flow through your
smart deeds!</div>
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Innovate, Inspire and Get Inspired always!</div>
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- Mani</div>
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Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-17275308451326011492011-08-07T06:24:00.000-07:002011-08-07T06:30:23.671-07:00FRIENDS - Old Poem Revisited for Friendship's Day!This can be fine-tuned a lot now. But I wanted to leave it like that. A baby's prattle should be admired and not corrected. I see this poem that way. Takes me back to my memories of 2002 and my naive in it, as an amateur poet ;-)<br /><br />==== <br /><br />In the hectic world of worries,<br />There are some queries,<br />What gives us pleasure?<br />That is hard to measure.<br />Sure, Friendship is that treasure.<br /><br />It is that love and care,<br />That the friends mutually share,<br />The feelings that are relished,<br />Forever, to be cherished.<br /><br />In any field of battle,<br />They stand together with mettle,<br />Throw their arms out,<br />And put their enemies to rout.<br /><br />Keep in mind,<br />They are one of the kind,<br />Who are really hard to find,<br />Sure, it is a lifetime bind!<br /><br />Composed By: Mani Jayaram<br />Date: 23rd May 2002.<br />For: A dedication to all those who respect Friends and Friendship.Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-37565287385240807802011-05-31T08:14:00.000-07:002011-05-31T16:52:42.757-07:00The path might end;but the journey continues ...<div align="justify">A borrowed thought from one of a tamil film song but it meant a lot to me. Isn't it the fact that whatever happens in life, time heals the good/bad and life moves on. Even if we are at a dead-end, we turn around to find our next way. Whether willingly or forced, we have to find our way until time stops us.<br /><br />Time/Destiny is so authoritative that it doesn't wait for us and on top of it, it makes us wait for it one day or the other. Being a winner always, it never stoops down and makes us look for it accepting our defeat. Nobody or nothing stands the testimony of time.<br /><br />So what it means to stand against Time. It needs courage, diligence and more than everything, THE FAITH. Believe in what we do, do it sincerely, pierce through the barriers, put all of you into it and you shine. When you put all of yours into a thing, you in turn give LIFE to it. <br /><br />But, is giving LIFE just enough to stand against time? Life needs to survive/sustain against its mighty opponent, the Time. So how it happens? It needs followers, people who look upon it, get inspired and follow it. Thats how it stands against time.<br /><br />Has anything stood against time for a few centuries? And even if it is, is it looked upon with the same level of exuberence like how it was looked upon when it was born? I dont see many! Its due to lack of followers that this unfortunate thing happens. For example, there are many architectural master-pieces that were built centuries ago but I always feel that most of them stand as a dilapidated piece without LIFE. How many of us know why it was built, how many laborers were involved in that and how long it took to build them. Only when all of these information exist and gets passed on, we see the architectural piece and the life behind it. And for those pieces for which, we know these answers, life/glory still exists. We lack followers to propagate information and make the life behind anything survive beyond time.<br /><br />A religion without followers slowly perishes. If we dont cultivate our tradition/goodness/beliefs to our offspring, heritage is gone. According to me 'Marriage' is coined for the same fact. Marriage is a tradition/concept that acts as a follower-factor to reinforce love to offsprings. We follow marriage to make love survive. If it is just about sex and children like in primitive ages, would 'Love' have survived? Anything without followers, gets wiped off eventually.<br /><br />What do we leave for the next generation? Is our value-system strong enough to raise the next generation. Whether you follow a nice path, or create a new path justify on what you are doing, make sure you are right 100 times and most importantly see if there is a strong following to it.<br /><br />Ending my thought here ... By slightly twisting the heading of this blog to 'Your journey might end; But the path should continue to exist', I see a new beginning to my above thought ...<br /><br />Take Care!<br />Mani Jayaram</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-59275696010084361982011-05-06T11:23:00.000-07:002011-05-06T11:29:01.134-07:00And miles to go before I sleep ...<div align="justify">These famous words of Robert Frost, kept moving through the grey and white matter of my thinkcenter for a long time now that I wanted to drain this thought off my brain into my blog ...<br /><br />In general I was thinking of 'destination'/'destiny' and what role it plays in us! When I was waiting for my shuttle bus to go to office, I was watching a man walking across the street here and there. It looked to me that he had nothing to do and just simply standing out on the streets. So I was thinking what happens to life without objective, aim or destination. Even for Robert Frost, Sleep [or his death as this was one of his last poems] was the destination and he wanted to do a lot before reaching the destination.<br /><br />We come to office and work for a well defined time just because we know, we have to reach home at some specific time. Imagine there is just work and no home. What defines our work timings in that case? Every thing that starts needs an end. Without this end for every start, life becomes traggic! <span style="color:#99ff99;">Lets take 'end' optimistically as destination/completion</span>.<br /><br />The good and the bad have a start and end. When we face the bad we should be optimistic that it will end sometime. Ideally, when we face the good we should be prepared that it is not ever-lasting. After all, <span style="color:#99ff99;">the cliche says 'All good things come to an end'</span> ...<br /><br />Without end to man's life, what happens! <span style="color:#99ff99;">Is there a thrill if it is a bright day always without a night or the vice versa?</span> Even an active day is followed by a peaceful rest/sleep. Isn't it? Nature and Life teaches us the same lesson. It is the crest that defines the trough and vive versa. An end begets a new beginning. It is just that we fail to understand this.<br /><br />We either go mentally down facing failures or wish to always bask on the success. Lets take the odds and evens positively. Destiny comes for our rescue in ending things that we start. What it means to be successful always? <span style="color:#ffffcc;">Will we have a target if we are alone on the top. What drives us to go further exploring and unravelling new limits</span>. It is a destination for every source that sets the next level of standards for us.<br /><br /><span style="color:#ffffcc;">Will a statement with only COMMAs and no FULL-STOP have a well defined meaning?</span> There is an completion to all things that start. Do we like people who keep on talk without a pause? So it is, for this writing too :-) I stop it here for you to ponder ...<br /><br />Yours,<br />Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-23648801709439046292011-04-08T07:59:00.000-07:002011-04-08T08:07:59.902-07:00All Life Equal ; Each Life Unique<div align="justify">Crispy yet Powerful! It meant a lot to me the moment I read it. I happened to read this somewhere and liked it so much to place this in my blog. </div><br /><div align="justify">I would consider this a balanced saying that enforces on both individuality and concern for others. How often do we express the concern for others? Do we respect every being the way we would like to be respected? In this busy world the benevolence, respect and concern for others looks to be slowly fading away. It is also about respecting the feelings of others. </div><br /><div align="justify">At the same time I also strongly believe that one cant please everybody in life and individuality is an important trait for every being to make him/her prominent in the society. Everybody is unique and that is what makes us visible amidst of million of beings around us. We should not compromise our individuality for others too. </div><br /><div align="justify">When I mean not giving up on individuality, it is the individuality that is good for ourself and to others. We cant of course be holding a quality that is not good for us or others and say that is our individuality :-) So caring for others the same way you care for yourself gives the balance. Striking a balance between these two is the challenge. </div><br /><div align="justify">Practice this in any relationship and see the difference it brings to the relationship. </div><br /><div align="justify">Regards, </div><br /><div align="justify">MJ</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-28611558785908761592009-11-02T05:47:00.000-08:002009-11-02T05:49:35.763-08:00How Men Became Dominant...<div align="justify"></div><p align="justify"> We keep hearing that the society is full of male dominance or the practices that we follow are all centered towards male interests. Some call it male dominance, some call it male chauvinism and women generally attribute this gesture as an arrogance shown towards womanhood. But then, how it all started? I thought to extrapolate on what I read sometime back. Here you go...<br /><br />The universal law of nature [or] the principle of evolution believes in 'Survival of the Fittest'. Let’s go to the period where the first single-cell organism came into existence. Its only job was to make its species prevalent in this earth and thus it started to split itself to reproduce more of its kind in this earth. To survive it needed nutrition and to spread, it needed reproduction. Slowly mutation came into play and suddenly two cell organisms emerged. This went on and on. A higher level organism never wanted to mate with its lower version mainly because every organism wanted to spread its race into the earth, evolve in their gene. To survive in the ecosystem, it has to be stronger than its predecessors. [This is why marriage in our culture is performed between people of same generation. The main reason is to bring the next level off springs fit and fine!] This kind of mutation process went on and on and humans [multi-cell organisms] came into the earth.<br /><br />The main intention of humans [before civilizations emerged] was again to spread its race. Reproduction was on. When choice was considered for, who should earn bread for their daily living, it was mutually agreed that Men should do it. This is because women by nature of their body had to bear children and thus were not able to regularly participate in hunting or climbing trees et al. Thus women were at home taking care of the family and men had to go for hunting and bring food back home. This is why men went for work and it was initially done NOT with the intention to suppress women.<br /><br />Men were involved in warfare, hunting and all outdoor activities to survive and protect their families. The male population got reduced slowly in this process of hunting and warfare. There came an imbalance in the men-women ratio, which showed a high threat to the spreading of human race. When a baby girl was born it wasn't considered a happy moment because the community already had lots of women and they desperately needed men to spread human race and to strike balance between men and women. This intention slowly went so rude to the level of woman infanticide.<br /><br />Also the imbalance in the men-women ratio brought in polygamy and that too in men's favor. Women started to accept the same man because men population was less and it was considered legal that a man can have physical relationship with more than one woman. Spreading of human race and protecting human gene was more important to humans of that age, than monogamy or polygamy.<br /><br />All the intentions were thus noble in those olden days and when civilizations began, these noble intentions slowly turned into a male-dominance dogma. The human race got established well enough and evolved over time but, the gene in men and women took time to evolve or change in their pattern. Thus men kept women under their hold, kept most of the rights/privileges with them, suppressed women to express their opinions and considered them a child vending machines.<br /><br />Situations have changed now. But some practices in our society are still male centric. Anytime we are into any doubt on male-centric practices think back to those prehistoric ages and see if that practice bears any relevance. Considering men as hunters and women as home-defenders is the clue. Dominance whether done by man or woman is not right. So hormones, genes or prehistoric practices can't be used as a defense for any human action :-)<br /><br />Regards,<br />Mani<br />--------<br />Seed: Why Men Can’t Think and Why Women Can’t Read Maps – Allan/Barbara!<br />Extension: Mani</p>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-91034849934394007072009-08-17T23:18:00.000-07:002009-08-17T23:22:39.373-07:00It lies 'within'!<div align="justify"></div><p align="justify">The crux of this blog is to stress that the solution for any problem lies inside and not outside. Let me support this statement spiritually, mythically, physiologically and philosophically to try make you believe this.<br /><br />Swami Vivekananda believes in the power and eternity of Soul. He says that for any problem the solution lies inside. There is a shield between the soul and the mind that causes the disconnection. Upon good meditation and belief, the shield fades away leaving the soul answer all our questions. The soul has transcended many births and generations, whose depth can't be covered by any book/person. All answers thus lie within, according to him.<br /><br />There is a small story in our epic Mahabharata where both Yudhistra and Duriyodhana were asked to go round the country to read people and their content levels. Yudhistra notices and reports all good when he returns, while Duriyodhana reports all the bad. It lies within! We see the world through our mind. How we are, so we see!<br /><br />To bring a good habit into practice, the change has to come within. When people complain their genes or physiological heritage as a reason to their maladies and faults they commit, we shouldn't encourage. It’s all in the mind and what we tune in our mind controls the hormones in our body and our practices eventually.<br /><br />Our own Mahatma Gandhi even asked us to be the change that we like to see. To extend my thought on the above consolidations, I will say that anything in this world is inside-out. The life in earth is a matter of cause-and-effect. The 'cause' is committed by us and it begets the ‘effect’. Thus I say that the direction is always inside-out!<br /><br />Let’s start realizing the importance of our inner self. We are all like the seed which stores in it one big tree and countless fruits. It’s from 'within'. There is less a difference in the process of ‘sowing’ and 'burying'. Both happen inside the soil but the difference in the effect of both these process is manifold. It’s the difference between life and death, the difference between sprouting and decaying, the extremities! What we see deep within can be liveliness or decomposition. Let’s tune our inner self. There is the solution for all problems. Why wait? Search within!</p><br /><p align="justify">Regards, </p><p align="justify">_Mani</p>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-11307035001070024802009-08-05T01:46:00.000-07:002009-08-05T01:55:22.727-07:00Contributing to our value system<div align="justify">Some weeks before, I had to experience a disturbing incident. I took my father for some purchase and we had some loads of bags with us. Since my father had to withdraw some money, I stood outside the ATM holding all the bags, while he was waiting in the queue. I didn’t notice that he was facing some problems in entering his pin. As he saw a big queue of people waiting for their turn, he came out after three attempts. He is not new to ATM but of course, he is an old man and may be he didn’t get it right this time.<br /><br />I saw a couple of frustrated faces when he came out. It disturbed me and I felt pity for him. It’s natural for anyone to get frustrated, if somebody takes time like this [Though I am not of that type especially with old people]. On top of these, I saw particularly one young man with his son talking something with a sarcastic smile on his face, looking at my father! May be, I was wrong in understanding his gesture. But, that juncture made me feel [bad] about where our society is heading. It questioned me on what is he passing to the next generation through his son! [If at all, my assumption was right]<br /><br />Our values are getting degenerated is what I should say. I didn’t feel this because it was my father who was the victim. In general, I was worried about the attitude he was teaching his son. Any boy of age between 10 and 20 yrs looks his father as the role model. A boy of that age, starts admiring his father on everything and [un]consciously starts imbibing the traits of his father. I would have been happy, if this guy would have taught his boy to help old people like this who struggle. Minimally, he should have at least left the place quietly!<br /><br />The values of the society lie in respecting the senior citizens of that society. If people are well respected and their emotions are well addressed, we can see more value in this social system. Like how Government has to play an important role in creating these values, we also have our dues to pay on the same lines. After all, our government is for the people, by the people and to the people.<br /><br />Respecting our work makes us do our job better. Respecting our family makes us, live a moral and affectionate life. I believe that with 'love' comes 'respect', with 'respect' comes 'sincerity' and with 'sincerity' comes 'diligence' and 'diligence' makes you think smart towards success. Values get formed with continues success on our backs!<br /><br />It starts at our home and expands outside. May be its time that we all cross-check on what we are passing to the next generation towards the value system. It’s all what we teach them. The way we live and behave, teaches them all.<br /><br />Take Care!<br />_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-73647674071884675982009-06-29T01:42:00.000-07:002009-06-29T01:57:02.942-07:00Where is Heaven/Where is Hell<div align="justify">Wanted to bring out a debatable topic this time. Where is heaven and hell? To me, the concept of heaven and hell were coined to bring out some imaginary destination for life-after-death. It serves an utopia and nothing else. It is all about our mind w.r.t. what is heaven and what is hell!<br /><br />The funny thing is that no person after death can come back to tell us, what is life after death :-) So it always stands a puzzle. The uncertainty, unpredictability and puzzling question of life after death has made lot of our ancestors coin their own version of death and also about life after death!<br /><br /><em><span style="color:#ffcc99;">To me, there is no life after death. The whole world and its life force is an energy equation and we all know every equation needs a balance. The amount of positive energy should equal the amount of negative energy to balance the equation. To keep up this balance living organisms take [re]birth. When we die, the energy that we possessed, whether positive or negative, goes into the energy pool. Depending on what imbalance it creates, organisms get their birth. Humans possess more energy than animals, which possess more energy than worms/insects which possess more energy than trees and so on... The soul possess this energy and based on the good/bad it gets responsible for during its existence, it upgrades/degrades in its powers!<br /></span></em><br />The above by itself is a big topic where I can ramble more :-) Not to digress here from our topic on heaven and hell. When I say, after death our energy goes to a central pool of energy, Why was heaven and hell coined? It was not actually to symbolize life after death. It has a lot to do with life that we live. The actions that we do during our lifetime take us through a trauma or bliss, which are characteristics of hell and the heaven. There is nothing more to it. We are responsible for our actions and we are the victim to the reactions that occur for our actions. When our ancestors say to do good to reach heaven, they simply mean to do good to be happy. It’s all about how to live our life happy and better. This generic information faded and distorted to different dimensions and made heaven/hell as destinations of life-after-death.<br /><br />Now, who decided on what is good that helps us to be in heavenly state and what is bad that make us suffer in the 'hell' state? Nobody made these rules/guidelines. It evolved over time. Some of our actions would have given us unfavorable reactions and would have made us suffer. Some actions would have always helped us be happy. So over time our ancestors were able to shape up the principles of living. The strongest of these principles formed religions and the bits around them were just coined as practices towards better living.<br /><br />This writing can go on and on, explaining/confusing more ... But, I just wanted you to think on these lines for sometime to see if it makes sense. I am not fully supporting this thought as I too have several questions over my head on the same lines! I just wanted to bring forth a dimension that heaven and hell are not really the destinations after death. They are our destinations towards all actions that we do during our lifetime.<br /><br />Let’s try to live in the heaven always, while we live!<br />Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-77496504959563271942009-06-03T02:18:00.000-07:002009-06-29T01:57:02.942-07:00Positive Criticism - Shiv Kera and Me<div align="justify">Every time we cannot get a chance to meet celebrities and share our thoughts. I read, by reading a book during coffee break, we are having a coffee with that author :-) So the title sounds this way :-) I was reading 'You can Win - Shiv Kera' and felt like talking about Positive Criticism that he has mentioned about. It sounded nice to me on what he explained about it in 2 pages. Read the excerpt if you like.<br /><br /><strong><span style="color:#99ff99;">Checkpoint to criticism:<br /></span></strong>If we are criticizing a person on the right lines which will help his personal improvement, it is perfectly fine. If criticizing the person gives us a pleasure, then it could be a false criticism arising out of greed or vengeance. We should check that before we do.<br /><br />If we are subjected to criticism, we should check on the same lines. We should use our wisdom in accepting/rejecting any criticism. If the criticism is out of ignorance it can be answered by a proper explanation. If the criticism is out of jealousy we cannot do anything about it. Take it positive as a compliment that you got for your work.<br /><br /><span style="color:#99ff99;"><strong>Why search for positive critics?</strong><br /></span>In life, people usually will like to remain in their comfort zones. They would like to be with people who will appraise them for whatever they have done [or] at least adjust to them no matter what they do. The fact is that 50% of people whom we meet don’t care what happens to us and the remaining 50% people are happy about what bad happen to us :-) People who do positive criticism are required for self improvement. If we find one, we should catch hold of them.<br /><br /><strong><span style="color:#339999;"><span style="color:#99ff99;">Some tips on 'How to Criticize':</span><br /></span></strong>How to criticize is an art. Always step into others shoes before you comment on them, to first see what we are criticizing is right? Never use the words like "You never do that ...", "You always do it this way ..." kind of statements as it immediately hurts the self-esteem of the other person. Always comment on the action and not the actor, criticize on the performance and not the performer.<br /><br /><span style="color:#ccffff;">Courtesy: You can Win - Shiv Kera. Chapter - 8 :-)<br /></span>====<br />To extend my thoughts on this, self improvement is very much essential like the air we breathe. Life acts on us based on how we live it and thus we need to be with the right people who will prepare us in life to be a complete human.<br /><br />To shell out of the comfort zone, needs a lot of struggle. To put us into the experiments is against the will of life, as everyone expects a relaxed trouble-free life. But the outcome of such a struggle elevates us to a place where the world will look upon with reverence.<br /><br />Vivekananda said "<em><span style="color:#ffff99;">In a day when you don't come across any problems—you can be sure that you are traveling in the wrong path</span></em>". What a statement of wisdom this is!<br /><br />Willingness to change towards positive suggestions helps us develop our wisdom. Slowly, our mind and soul can become our best critic. Conscience is a matter of, the way we are brought up. Even to tune ones conscience, wisdom is required. What the world sees to be good translates into positive criticism if you are with the right people. This criticism tunes our wisdom which trains/conditions our conscience. This makes us all set!<br /><br />Someone said 'Live life when you are alive. Don’t die before you are dead'.<br /><br />Love Life and Live it to the best!<br />_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-40300791056215205152009-04-14T01:38:00.000-07:002009-06-29T01:57:02.942-07:00What we sow, we reap ?<div align="justify">Yes! A well known proverb! I can say it is a hackneyed phrase. Wanted to draw some tangential thoughts to this. So let’s think. Is this always true? Do we always reap what we sow?<br /><br />I agree that Good deeds beget goodness and bad ones yields the bad. But, I feel it is not just 'what we sow', it is also 'where we sow' that matters! <em><span style="color:#ff9966;">A rich soil yields good harvest. Thus the environment is an important factor as well! If a soil is not conditioned well for a particular kind of crop, does the harvest still be rich?<br /></span></em><br />A good person amidst 1000 bad people is seen odd. I am not trying to say here to get used to the environment we belong to! I am not persuading to loose our identity but to create a conducive environment and condition the surroundings before we 'sow' our thoughts or actions. </div><div align="justify"></div><br><div align="justify">A weed-out process should happen, where we first customize our ambience to think in our lines. We can't force our thoughts in that environment but we will have to convince the environment. A set of beliefs ONLY when is well accepted and followed, forms a religion. Any religious moral is believed across generations. Thus any thought to be trusted and believed needs sincere followers who should be convinced on what we want them to believe. The thought whether it becomes pervasive or extinct is dependent on on how we prepare our surroundings before seeding our thought.</div><div align="justify"><br />Thus, don’t just think about 'sowing the right ones'. Think about the right place. A right seed in the wrong environment perishes with no trace of its being. We humans have great sense to think and create our environment rather than crib on the environment we live in. Any effort in the wrong direction goes futile. </div><div align="justify"></div><br><div align="justify">The difference between 'living' and 'adaptation' is the difference between humans and other living organisms. Animals adapt and evolve to their surroundings. But we humans have the ability to create our living. So rather than complaining/adapting on the society we should act in such a way that right morals and right actions will happen in the environment that surrounds us.<br /><br />Next time, when we try to 'sow' will we think on where we are doing it? Prepare the base properly so that what we 'sow' grows well and becomes beneficial to ourselves and others. I think, I sowed my thought here in an environment, where I believe people who read it will think about it :-)<br /><br />_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-62002707922992872762009-03-13T05:44:00.000-07:002009-03-21T10:25:39.696-07:00Spending Vs Investing<div align="justify">What do we spend and what do we invest? The question came to my mind last week and I had to think more on it. The arena where this thought had to play was not just the financial grounds, but in our entire life. To hit the dart straightaway, <span style="color:#ffcc99;">‘spending’ usefully towards a long standing benefit to you or others is ‘investing’</span>!<br /><br />Let’s go to a different dimension now by relating this to our life. How much of our time we spend and how much of our time do we invest? I keep 'time' as the baseline here, as this drives our age and lifetime.<br /><br />If you put in your effort on something that is not useful to you the next moment, I call it spending. Say you getup late in the morning, catch an auto/taxi to reach on time to office, you might have reached office on time and could be perfectly ok with your official works. But, you have spent your energy, money and that travelling time in the wrong direction. A perfect start of the day is very important and you failed investing in that!<br /><br />Devoting your time for your children is an investment on their growth. Investing time on music might make you feel pleasant. Investing time on meditation might make you feel inspired and strong. Interest varies between individual.<br /><br />Another dimension here could be this! Whatever is against ones interest, he considers it a spending and the vice versa is investing. Putting your money to buy a big TV might be a spending for some. But, for some others they have invested their money towards entertainment. The few minutes they watch in that TV might still give them great happiness, energizes them and might fulfill their fantasies.<br /><br />But, there are some universally accepted things which are investments for all of us. Think deep in your conscience and it will reveal you what is a real investment. Investments are more than just quenching your fantasies. It has to be something that gives you long standing benefits.<br /><br />By analyzing on how much time in a day you 'spend' and think about how to convert that into an 'investment', one can improve his art of living. Iteratively doing this, the time we spend diminish and gives way to investments. I strictly believe that we should start investing in our life.<br /><br />I consider blogging this, an investment. Not sure what you felt reading it :-)<br /><br />Cheers!<br />Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-21823726909473498662009-02-26T03:57:00.000-08:002009-03-21T10:25:39.696-07:00February - The month of Love!<div align="justify">The month of February was the first of its kind for me. I read a lot after a long time. Thanks to one of my friends, who was the main reason behind me doing a non-techie read, after a long time :-) But, writing here about something which is not from the book I read ... This thought kept on bothering me for a long time. I felt only if I push this out I will get space for the next one ...<br /><br />What is life without love? I can't imagine. When a new acquaintance bloom its way into a great relationship, the feel is inexplicable. Everyone in life should build great relationships. I read in one of Chetan Bhagat's words that small sparks will keep the vehicle of life moving. Small excitements are required to keep life moving. Very true! Begin life in iota of acquaintances and build great relationships there on ...<br /><br />The month of February makes me reminded of two things, My mom's birthday [13-Feb] and the Valentine’s Day. Both streamline to Love for me. The feel of motherhood is something great! She doesn't know how the baby will look like, color or looks, what he will become in life, good or bad. What an unconditional love ... amazing! A woman can be wrong but 99.99% a mother cannot be wrong! Great metaphor for love, right? Also, it is the first love we see in our life! A salute to the motherhood in this 'month’ dedicated for love.<br /><br />How great it is to feel that we have people around us, who care for us. To be choosy on relationships is great. You are the happiest and blessed in this world when the one you choose to be a friend with, acknowledge it and reciprocate it. Some words are coined after a great thought, I would say. <em><span style="color:#ff9966;">The word horizon is one such word, I like the most. You see it but you can't experience it in reality. But you can imagine and feel it the way you want. You can enjoy it to any extent you want. The feel of love is the same I feel.</span></em> It’s an utopia and I have my own gestures towards it and my own reverence for it. I like to show it to all who like me. I wish God gives me that time and space for that!<br /><br />You will be surprised to hear, I developed a good friendship for a lizard at my home in chennai. I was staying alone for 2 weeks with no one to speak. The disturbance on the first day was that lizard but as days went on, when I didn’t see it for 3 or 4 days and it appeared suddenly on one day, I felt so happy :-) I kept on looking for it on all the other days!<br /><br />Robhin Sharma said this ... "When a baby is born, it cries while people surrounding the new-born are in gay! When a person dies it should be the reverse, where he/she lies down in peace with all-smiles and people around cry for the demise”. Build great relationships.<br /><br />Stopping it here ... Feel like experiencing Love in all forms, all through my life ... Love is something great. isn't it?</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Yours Lovingly,</div><div align="justify">_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-71582098890956540622009-01-21T03:19:00.000-08:002009-01-21T03:26:53.199-08:00How to look at life? – Letter to the soul!<div align="justify">The question keeps troubling me quite often. In fact, it haunts me. Sometimes going by strict guidelines and containing our life within those borders puts us to boredom. But, the way I feel like looking at it today, is to fight it brave! Yes ... It is a big battle that is given to us and we need to put in a relentless effort to sustain here.<br /><br />Don’t bother much! There are ways to handle whatever that troubles you. It is not that you need to fight against the trouble always. Nor, we need to trouble the trouble before it troubles you. We can't be so proactive in life at all times. Sometimes, getting rid of [bypassing] the trouble is better than facing it. See, if you can do better without addressing it. That could be a wise decision rather than spending years to fight against it.<br /><br />Everybody will commit mistakes in life. It can be a small one or a big one. Could stop there or might create a chain of mistakes. But yeah, the fact is life is too long to live it fully right. Always have this in mind. A small 2-D 8x8 chess board has so many tricks in it to master and so many knots to unravel. Life has many dimensions and many puzzles to solve. Lets not look life complex thinking of this. The intent is to say, life is big enough to spend it fully right.<br /><br />The thing we will have to have in mind is not the cause of the mistake. But it’s effect. If you are able to correct the bad effects of your mistake and see things peaceful and serene, don’t bother about that again. The history of the mistake should be forgotten there. The lesson has to be taken. That mistake was one game given to you in your life where you didn't play well but you were able to come out of that debacle and the story ends there. Don't connect it to anything else in your life that happens in future.<br /><br />See the God in you! Be kind to people. Love mankind. Enjoy and imbibe the nature. Who ever may console you when you are depressed, it’s you who should be willing to come out of it. Don’t rely fully on external sources to be consoled. It is mostly within you! Get to speak with those whom you like to ignite the engine and then on run the engine by your internal motivation force.<br /><br />Play life like a bravo! It’s all about patching up the gaps and downs to make life smooth and even. Every mistake is corrigible when realized and acted upon at the right time. If not corrigible, at least its effect becomes negligible when you act fast upon it.<br /><br />You will be fine and will rock the way you want[ed] to! Life is too short to spend worrying! On a practical note I remember this saying: "It's not wrong in life to expect to walk on a path full of roses; But its greedy to expect not even one thorn should prick your feet"<br /><br />_Mani </div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-7656010197609173752009-01-04T22:36:00.000-08:002009-03-21T10:25:19.570-07:00Great Sayings!<div align="justify">Hey,</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">A Very Happy New Year to you! This time I didn't want to write a message by myself. Rather, I wanted to take help from others to message you as well :-) Here are those ...</div><br><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><strong>Inspirational Messages</strong> </div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#ffcc99;">"You are what you repeatedly do. Excellence is not an event - it is a habit."- Aristotle </span></div><br><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">Keep your face to the sunshine and you can never see the shadow."- Helen Keller</div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc99;">"Fear does not have any special power unless you empower it by submitting to it."- Les Brown<br /></div></span><br><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">'A man may fulfill the object of his existence by asking aquestion he cannot answer, and attempting a task he cannotachieve.'- Oliver Wendell Holmes<br /></div><br><div align="justify">"Give yourself an even greater challenge than the one you are trying to master and you will develop the powers necessary to overcome the original difficulty." - William J. Bennett<br /></div><br><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffff99;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffff99;">"One of the tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon - instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today."- Dale Carnegie<br /></div></span><br><div align="justify">"Most great men and women are not perfectly rounded in their personalities, but are instead people whose one driving enthusiasm is so great it makes their faults seem insignificant."- Charles A. Cerami</div><br><br><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><strong>Kindness and Love</strong></div><br><div align="justify"><strong></strong></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle."- Plato</span></div><div align="justify"><br />"It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."- Ralph Waldo Emerson</div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#33ccff;">"The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost."- G.K. Chesterton</span></div><div align="justify"><br />"Life is short. Be swift to love! Make haste to be kind!"- Henri F. Amiel </div><div align="justify"></div><br><br><div align="justify"><strong>A Nice Prayer!</strong></div><strong><div align="justify"><br /></strong><span style="color:#99ff99;"><em>'God, grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change; the courage to change the one I can; And the wisdom to know the person in me.'</em></span></div><div align="justify"></div><br><br><div align="justify">Cheers!</div><div align="justify">_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-24017053209840223832008-12-05T05:24:00.001-08:002012-03-19T22:37:59.269-07:00Tough Times - Way to look at it!<p align="justify"><br />Challenging Situations, Muddled minds and confused murmurs are the ones I see these days among people. Yes, we are circled by tough times these days both inside and outside. But, it is all in our perception and how we look at this scene. I felt like giving you a different dimension or a consolation to feel comfortable in this crisis!<br /><br />We have been facing challenges in life. Some we faced unknowingly, some as part of our commitments/predicaments and some after hibernation into our comfort zones. </p><ul><li><div align="justify">Unknowingly as a little toddler, we learnt to walk. As a child we slowly prattled to get our speaking ability. These are the main and major things one should have in life. I mean the ability to walk and speak. Right? Luckily, as a child we never had the fear or thinking as to what will happen if I can’t walk? [or] what will happen if I cant speak? Without that fear/tension we were able to tackle it easily!</div></li><li><div align="justify">As part of commitments: We struggled to get settled in life. No other go we got to do it. Else, life becomes a trouble. We had to clear our exams and there was no other option. So we did it!</div></li><li><div align="justify">After getting settled in life we entered into a routine and got comforts. We were into a hibernation mode, out of troubles. And suddenly now, when a crisis or a challenge comes we panic or get confused!</div></li></ul><p align="justify"><em><span style="color:#99ff99;">Do you see the difference in all the above phases of life? Challenges were there always, they were unique but its our attitude towards it that made the difference.<br /></span></em><br />Lets face it. Only tough times unravel the strengths of a man. Success is not about winning always. It’s also about how quickly we can raise out of debacles! Even the smallest of the grass has to put its new root into the ground firmly, even if it sees a new stone on its way. Only when you keep rocking yourself strong against the obstacles, you get deeply firmly rooted. Mind it!<br /><br />Think of your surroundings, ambience and dependents. You cannot stumble so easily and also collapse your dependents. The struggle of a seed inside the ground is two-fold. In one direction, it has to stretch and push out of the soil to help the world with its fruits, flowers, shade et al. On the other direction, it has to root itself deeply/firmly so that it can stand strong to support the world and sustain its fruitfulness. Can you evaluate which direction is important? We can't be partial to one of this, obviously. Both are crucial dimensions to concentrate on! How many trees we see daily? But, do we realize this fact? Let’s be strong and keep others and our ambience lively and strong as well! Growing on both sides is very important and these tough times help us do that!<br /><br />Its time, I leave your mind free to ponder on this. To end with a cliché, "Tough times never last; but, tough men do!!!"<br /><br />Yours inspiringly,<br />Mani<br /></p>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-54783280066049044232008-10-23T04:14:00.000-07:002008-12-12T04:20:16.506-08:00Life - Being Accountable, Yet Keeping it Lite!<div align="justify">Hi,<br /><br />It has been a long time ... How are you? Yesterday when I was heading back home, I thought a few things which I felt sharing with you.<br /><br />Life is a gift or a pain? Have we ever counted how many moments in a day we were happy or sad? Is that happiness or sorrow because of our mistake or the other? There are definite answers to everything in the world. But, it depends on whether you want to accept it or not. If you ask me, for all the 'effects', the 'cause' is you. You started something which gave that 'effect'. But does that always mean you are the one who did that mistake? Not actually!<br /><br />Certain things have to start. When I say 'Certain Things', it can be any work, a conversation, an acquaintance, a project, your own vision, a desire or anything. Who starts it is not of concern. But once started, how you attribute yourself to the series of events that happens around it, makes you accountable for the happiness/sorrow that you got.<br /><br />To be simple, A desire to buy a car is bound to happen for anyone. If you buy as per your plan you are happy else, you are sad. But the desire by itself is not the cause for your sadness. How did you approach towards accomplishing your desire, makes you accountable for the happiness/sorrow the desire caused. If you had put all your efforts towards buying the car and your mind is convinced of your efforts, you need not worry about it at all. Start finding the external factors which caused your desire to fail and try approaching/complaining that factor rather than blaming you. More than complaining, we will have to actually think of circumventing that factor the next time, when you aim to approach that desire again.<br /><br />Keep life simple. Do your best and leave the rest on God. I bet it is simple. 'Life is a gift or a pain' should not be our debate. Keep it aside. What you want to do today to be happy is what that pays in a long run. Think like your whole life is just today, is a usual cliché to be happy in life. But that doesn't mean no planning is required for future :-)... Be cool and do your best.<br /><br />Spend time with your family and friends, everyday. It’s very hard to get people who love your presence. A small mail or a minute of chat will not digress you out of your vision. A smile exchanged daily is worth millions of talk. See life as a piano [or any musical instrument] and think of how to bring beautiful melodies out of it. Remember, it’s the person who plays the piano brings in it a cacophony or euphony. Learn that art! As they say 'A lazy man always blames his tools', there is no point in blaming the piano [life], for what you played on it.<br /><br />Blame yourself and make you accountable for the RIGHT mistakes only. Keep life as light as possible. Stop debating on 'life - a gift or pain'. If you still keep doing the debate, you will forget to live it.<br /><br />Yours lively,<br />_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-87368460473233572932008-10-15T05:16:00.000-07:002008-12-12T04:22:15.026-08:00Taxation as explained by an economics professor<div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc99;">I got this as a forward from one of my friends. Worth and Interesting, a read!<br /></span><br />===<br /><br /></div><div align="justify">Suppose that every day, ten men go out for beer and the bill for all ten comes to $100. If they paid their bill the way we pay our taxes, it would go something like this:<br /><br /><span style="color:#ffff99;">The first four men (the poorest) would pay nothing.<br />The fifth would pay $1.<br />The sixth would pay $3.<br />The seventh would pay $7.<br />The eighth would pay $12.<br />The ninth would pay $18.<br />The tenth man (the richest) would pay $59.<br /></span>So, that's what they decided to do.<br /><br /></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">The ten men drank in the bar every day and seemed quite happy with the arrangement, until on day, the owner threw them a curve. "Since you are all such good customers," he said, "I'm going to reduce the cost of your daily beer by $20."Drinks for the ten now cost just $80. </div><div align="justify"><br /><br /></div><div align="justify">The group still wanted to pay their bill the way we pay our taxes so the first four men were unaffected. They would still drink for free. But what about the other six men - the paying customers? How could they divide the $20 windfall so that everyone would get his 'fair share?'They realized that $20 divided by six is $3.33. But if they subtracted that from everybody's share, then the fifth man and the sixth man would each end up being paid to drink his beer.So, the bar owner suggested that it would be fair to reduce each man's bill by roughly the same amount, and he proceeded to work out the amounts each should pay.<br /><br /></div><div align="justify">And so:<br /><span style="color:#99ff99;">The fifth man, like the first four, now paid nothing (100% savings).<br />The sixth now paid $2 instead of $3 (33%savings).<br />The seventh now pay $5 instead of $7 (28%savings).<br />The eighth now paid $9 instead of $12 (25% savings).<br />The ninth now paid $14 instead of $18 (22% savings).<br />The tenth now paid $49 instead of $59 (16% savings).<br /></span><br /></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">Each of the six was better off than before. And the first four continued to drink for free. But once outside the restaurant, the men began to compare their savings.<br /><br /></div><div align="justify">"I only got a dollar out of the $20,"declared the sixth man. He pointed to the tenth man," but he got $10!" "Yeah, that's right," exclaimed the fifth man. "I only saved a dollar, too. It's unfair that he got TEN times more than I!" "That's true!!" shouted the seventh man. "Why should he get $10 back when I got only two? The wealthy get all the breaks!" "Wait a minute," yelled the first four men in unison. "We didn't get anything at all. The system exploits the poor!" The nine men surrounded the tenth and beat him up. </div><br /><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">The next night the tenth man didn't show up for drinks, so the nine sat down and had beers without him. But when it came time to pay the bill, they discovered something important. They didn't have enough money between all of them for even half of the bill!<br /></div><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify">And that, boys and girls, journalists and college professors, is how our tax system works. The people who pay the highest taxes get the most benefit from a tax reduction. Tax them too much, attack them for being wealthy, and they just may not show up anymore. In fact, they might start drinking overseas where the atmosphere is somewhat friendlier.<br /></div><div align="justify"><br />David R. Kamerschen,<br />Ph.D. Professor of Economics<br />University of Georgia </div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-72794079709394572012008-09-24T06:29:00.001-07:002008-12-12T04:22:59.028-08:00Into My Mystery LandIt had been a month, since I blogged. Not sure why. But lots of thoughts I was into. ALso was busy at work :-) ... Wanted to put my recent poem atleast to be in touch here ... Read it, if you feel like!<br /><br />===<br /><br /><strong><u>Into My Mystery Land</u></strong><br /><br />In this big world full of cause and effect<br />Living this life with so many defects<br />My mind started to sail like a boat,<br />In a big ocean of fictitious thought!<br /><br />Wanting to find a piece of land,<br />Where I can see peace, ease at hand,<br />Live only with people and things I like<br />And, nothing else bothering my psyche!<br /><br />I wanted to walk into the lonely dark<br />With no light but the lighting's spark<br />Intent to find a beautiful calm place<br />That is still to my mind, mystic and Haze!<br /><br />I wanted to sleep gazing the azure sight,<br />The clouds shielding me from rain and sunlight,<br />Sing my rhymes to anything and everything,<br />Enjoying a life, taken away from human being!<br /><br />To each and every subtle signs of nature,<br />I should enjoy living there on my posture,<br />Even for a small sound of the birds chirk,<br />My heart should dance giving its jerks!<br /><br />The sky should allow me to decorate her,<br />To move the stars and clouds here and there,<br />Turn the moon and sun, as her focus lights,<br />That will give people of earth, a beautiful sight!<br /><br />To drink the rain drops before it lands,<br />To alter the shape of mountains with my hands,<br />The nature should allow me to water wash and paint,<br />I shall be privileged to make it clean, remove its taint!<br /><br />I wanted to play my own life like a good game,<br />Not do anything in my land, for money or fame,<br />The moment something strikes me, it is done,<br />None to answer, nothing to bother and Only Fun!<br /><br />The fact that none can go against nature,<br />Understand fully, I succumb a poor creature,<br />Let Nature powerfully take over myself,<br />Considering me an ever bonded slave for itself!<br /><br />A ray of light should strike powerful on me<br />And show this beautiful place only for me,<br />It should be a place where only peace exist,<br />To run there my body and soul shouldn't resist!<br /><br />Not knowing why this find, its purpose,<br />Me and My thoughts, let loose in disperse,<br />Will I hold my sole part of water and sand,<br />Which is still to me, a mystery land!<br /><br /><br /><br />By,<br />_ManiMani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7386735354292955539.post-24176525100623060632008-08-11T04:52:00.001-07:002008-12-12T04:20:16.506-08:00The Sanctum Santorum - Garbha Griha<div align="justify">Information from Wikipedia gives the definition as follows<br /><em><span style="color:#ffcc99;">===<br />Garbhagriha or garbha griha is a Sanskrit word meaning the interior of the sanctum sanctorum, the innermost sanctum of a Hindu temple where resides the murti (idol or icon) of primary deity of the temple. Literally the word means "womb chamber" from Sanskrit word garbha for womb and griha for house. Only priests are allowed to enter. Often associated with Hindu temples, it is also found in Jain and Buddhist temples.<br /><br />The Architectural Science behind this place states that the main idol of the temple is kept exactly under the "Spire" of the temple. The spire can be a conical shape [or] pyramid-like shape [as in Brahadeeshwara Temple, Tanjore]. The spire in line with the garbhagriha chamber is said to form the main "Vertical Axis" of the temple. Garbhagriha is also said to be also on the main horizontal axis. If there is a cross-axis, then it is at the intersection of these axes.<br />===<br /></span></em><br />What I feel, thought and gathered about Sanctum Santorum is here...<br /><br />The main powers of the temple area get focused at the intersection of these axis and thus all powers streamline to focus this chamber, where the main idol of the temple is kept. To streamline the power the temple structure is kept in a conical or pyramid-like shape, which has the tendency to attract positive vibes and disperse into the garbha-griha. This place is thus more pious and pure in the whole of temple, where only the priest enters to perform their religious offerings to God.<br /><br />The Sanctum Santorum is usually dark. With today's technology, we see lot of lights inside the Sanctum Santorum, which I feel should not be done. People say that there was no electricity in olden days which is why the maim chamber was dark and now that we have electricity, it is good to have it bright. This could be a fallible vision.<br /><br />Lot of temples in Kerala, had provisions for oil-wick lamps to lit the exterior walls of their temples with good light. When they had this option, why didn't they light the garbha-griha to make it look bright? This has an insight definitely!<br /><br />The word 'garbha' in Sanskrit means 'Mother's Womb'. The place where life begins is Godliness and this place [the Womb] is dark indeed. So Garbha-Griha by its appearance is a powerful place that is dark as well. For example, when we see lightning and close our eyes, do you still perceive the image of it, inside your mind for sometime atleast? When something appears to us in a black background, the subconscious mind gets a clear image of it. I can compare the ‘mind’ and ‘image’ to the 'Photo' and 'Negative', where a black negative when developed across a 'white photo paper', gives the image's reflection. Subconscious mind exhibits the same effect.<br /><br />Thus the garbha griha with the idol is purposefully kept dark. When the priest lights the camphor and shows light on the idol, our subconscious mind can easily register the image against the dark background. It is thus even said not to close our eyes and pray when the priest shows camphor in front of God. We should actually admire God in that camphor-light and register his image on our minds.<br /><br />I hope you see a difference when you stand in front of The Sanctum Santorum, the next time!<br /><br />Yours Spiritually,<br />_Mani</div>Mani Jayaramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09565744015802345851noreply@blogger.com0